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Scales of Justice



Making The Hours of Your Life Worth More ™

Issue # 22
BECOME THE "GO-TO" LAWYER

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BEYOND THE BILLABLE HOUR ™ - Making the Hours of Your
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Issue # 22 - BECOME THE "GO-TO" LAWYER
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ARTICLE SUMMARY: The power to negotiate a successful 
                 balanced hours schedule with full
                 opportunity for advancement increases
                 when you demonstrate your value to your
                 firm or organization. A seven-step plan 
                 for becoming the "go-to" lawyer in your
                 area of expertise is described. 
        
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Ellen Ostrow, Ph.D., Editor
Ellen is the founder of LawyersLifeCoach.com ™
      Personal and Career Coaching for Lawyers Determined
      to Achieve Professional Success AND
      a Fulfilling Life  
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              OUR PERSPECTIVE

Most attorneys -- especially women -- live impossibly busy lives.  
Finding a balance between work and life without sacrificing 
professional success, deciding on the best practice area or 
work setting, and making career transitions can be a daunting
task, even for the most gifted and accomplished lawyer.

Just as every person deserves the best possible legal
counsel, every attorney deserves professional, dedicated
support in accomplishing her most important goals.
You know how hard you've worked to get where you are --
you serve others, both personally and professionally.
You've earned the right to both career success and
a fulfilling life.

This newsletter is intended to help you create a 
satisfying life -- within, or outside of -- legal practice.

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                  Become the "Go-To" Lawyer




    "Luck is what happens when preparation meets
     opportunity."
                       -- Brian Tracy





It's common knowledge that for most women lawyers,
success is hard won.  Typically, women face double standards: 
if they're assertive, they're labeled as overaggressive; 
if they demure, they're seen as "not tough enough". Research 
consistently documents that women's work products are devalued 
in relation to those of their male counterparts due to unconscious 
bias.  In most legal workplaces, the "ideal worker" is still 
someone who can devote unlimited and uninterrupted time to
his or her career (1). Since childbirth requires a work 
interruption, and since most women still have primary 
care-taking responsibilities at home, the reality of women's 
bodies and lives is incompatible with  this "ideal."

Although reduced hours is offered as an option at many legal 
workplaces, most women fear that exercising this option will 
destroy their careers.  Concerns about being seen as less committed, 
receiving poor quality assignments, and losing opportunities for 
advancement often lead talented women attorneys to conclude that 
they have no future at their firms, or even in the profession.

Many women lawyers are under the impression that only 
"superstars" can achieve career success while working
reduced hours. Often firms will tout their "superstars" as 
evidence of an effective work-life balance policy.  To most 
women attorneys, these "superstars" appear to be impossible 
to emulate.  Their success seems to be due to some kind of 
unattainable "magic."  The women lawyers I coach frequently 
assume that the "superstars" possess incomparable paper 
credentials, incredible genius, remarkable persuasive power, 
or other characteristics they believe they can never possess.

The fact is that any committed attorney has the potential 
to be a "superstar."  It does not require extraordinary
brilliance or a particular kind of personality.  Rather,
success requires certain behaviors which demonstrate the
attorney's value to her organization.  In order to 
achieve the success you desire, you must first accept
that you cannot depend upon the traditional management
structure to put you on the path to achievement.

Instead, you'll need to take control of your career yourself.  
Essentially, this means understanding your
organization's goals and bottom line and demonstrating
that you can contribute to the success of your workplace.

Taking responsibility for your career success means looking 
for opportunities to demonstrate your competence and value - 
both to your employer and your clients.

Especially if you want to work a balanced hours schedule,
you need to understand that retention, per se, is not
necessarily a priority in most firms, especially in today's
slow economy.  However, retention of TALENT is.

In order to make the business case for balanced hours,
you'll need to demonstrate that you are the kind of lawyer
your firm or organization would want to retain - that to
lose you would be costly.

One of the most effective ways to do this is to become
the "go-to" lawyer in your area of practice.  You want to
be seen as the attorney who has the answers, who is on
top of the latest information, who is eager to help
co-workers and clients, who cares about the success
of the organization and its clients and will go above and
beyond in order to promote this success.

Here are seven steps to becoming the "go-to" lawyer:


1. Define An Area of Expertise

   Ask yourself what kind of work you most enjoy.  What
   issues hold your attention?  What gives you the
   greatest sense of pride and accomplishment?  

   Also consider what kind of expertise would meet the
   needs of your workplace.

   The area of expertise you choose should be something
   that truly interests you and is also of value to
   your market or organization.

   Remember that applied knowledge is power - and
   you're trying to empower yourself to succeed in your
   chosen career without compromising the non-work
   commitments you value.  The more knowledge you
   have relative to the needs of your organization and
   clients, the more able you will be to enable them
   to achieve their own goals.  This will make you too
   valuable to lose.

   Also keep in mind that developing an area of expertise
   doesn't mean you need to know everything.  Select 
   a defined issue that grabs your attention and learn
   everything you can about it.  Keep abreast of the
   latest information.  This will make you the "in-house"
   expert.

2. Take Initiative in Continuous Learning

   Establishing and maintaining expertise requires 
   making a commitment to learning.  When you're clear
   about your professional goals, you can identify
   the knowledge and skills you need to acquire in
   order to develop and maintain your status as expert.
   
   Clarify what you need to learn and make a plan to
   acquire the knowledge.  You can do this through
   reading, attending continuing education programs, and
   seeking out mentors. Read the trade publications your
   clients read and attend trade association meetings 
   held by your target market.  Listening to their
   presentations will keep you informed about their most
   current needs and concerns.

3. Develop a Knowledge Network

   Build and maintain a network of relationships with
   people who are willing to share knowledge for mutual
   benefit.  No matter how expert you become, there's
   always new knowledge developing.  Proactively develop
   dependable pathways to knowledge. Maintaining this
   kind of network allows you to volunteer to help even
   when you know your own personal knowledge is incomplete.
   You can turn to network members to close your knowledge
   gaps.  In this way, you'll be responsive to requests
   for assistance and learn in the process.

   Don't forget that these are mutual, reciprocal 
   relationships.  Nurture them. 

   

4. Share Your Expertise

   Your knowledge is only useful if others identify you
   as knowledgeable. It's up to you to create your own
   reputation. Find subtle ways to make others aware
   of your expertise.


   TEACH A CLASS

   Consider teaching a class on the subject at a nearby law
   school.  Course preparation is a great way to become
   an expert.  Teaching will build your confidence to
   present the material in other formats.


   OFFER AN INFORMAL BROWN-BAG

   Offering to share information you've learned with
   interested colleagues in an informal setting will
   increase awareness of your expertise.  

   Be sure to first touch base with colleagues who
   have similar areas of expertise to avoid turf
   battles. Invite them to contribute at the meeting, 
   recognize their expertise, and make clear you are
   interested in working together, rather than competing.


   SEND INFORMATION TO YOUR MAILING LIST

   Having a data base organized according to the
   information needs of clients and colleagues is
   a powerful tool for demonstrating your expertise.
   You can pass along tips on a "need-to-know" basis.
   In-depth articles on topics of interest will 
   establish you as a generous supplier of expert
   information.


   BE VISIBLE

   Depending upon your talents and preferences, you can:


    * Publish Articles

    * Present Seminars

    * Speak at Conferences


   Keep the following in mind:

    * Articles and presentations showcase your expertise.

    * Sponsorship by a trade organization is an endorsement
      of your qualifications.

    * Target your audience -- 

         If your expertise would be most helpful to
         other attorneys, write for bar publications.

         To reach your target market directly, write
         for their trade publications.

         Speak in a language your audience will
         understand.

         Tailor your remarks to the information needs
         of your audience.  Many lawyers lose "beauty
         contests" by focusing on what they want to say
         instead of what clients want to hear. 
 


    * Don't be afraid to give away too much information. 
      Clients will still need your counsel and 
      representation.


    * Don't tell people that you know something - 
      demonstrate it.

       
5. Give of Yourself Without Expectations of Return

   Understand the needs of your clients as well as
   your organization - know what each will define as 
   "help."

   Share your knowledge simply to help others succeed.
   Take the initiative to offer solutions to problems.
   Be proactive - take action when you see something
   that needs to be done.
   
   Offer a piece of news or information to someone you
   think might find it useful.  

   Sit on boards; use your expertise to serve your
   community.

   Remember, you're developing a reputation.  Giving
   generously will come back to you in ways you can't
   anticipate or engineer.

6. Be Savvy About Your Organization

   Plot the most direct essential route from where you
   are now to your goals and align them with the mission of
   your organization. 

   Take the initiative to seek out assignments that
   will advance you toward your own goals and demonstrate
   your value and competence to your organization.

   If you're going to take the initiative in seeking
   good assignments and offering solutions to problems,
   you'll need to have a clear understanding of what
   constitutes "initiative" in your workplace.  What
   is seen as "doing your job" vs. going above and beyond?

   Keep in mind that your manager is your internal
   client. Manage your relationship with your superiors
   as you do with your clients. Understand their goals,
   work to give them peace of mind, and shape their
   expectations.

   Your goal is to "superplease" both your internal and
   external clients without compromising your life or
   your integrity.

7. Strive for Excellence

   Always do excellent work.  Regardless of your feelings
   about your firm or organization at any moment in time,
   remember your professionalism.

   Keep in mind the difference between excellence and
   perfection. If you're human, you'll make mistakes.
   Excellence means doing your best, striving for the
   highest quality of which you are capable, and seeking
   needed information and assistance to make the work
   product the best you can. 

   It's difficult to strive for excellence unless you're
   doing what you love.  True success and happiness is
   easiest to achieve when your commit yourself whole-
   heartedly to doing what you most love to do.


Being technically excellent is no longer enough to
ensure your success in your firm or organization.
You need to demonstrate your value.  Establishing a
reputation for having expertise in an area, and
a willingness to share your knowledge and experience
will make your value evident.

When you're viewed as the attorney whose counsel clients
seek when they have a question or a problem, you'll be
tough to replace.  Becoming the "go-to" lawyer will
empower you to negotiate for what you want - balanced
hours, advancement opportunities, equity in compensation
and bonuses.


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1. Williams, Joan (2000). "Unbending gender:  Why family
       and work conflict and what to do about it."
       New York: Oxford University Press.


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Ellen holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology
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a multispecialty, multidisciplinary psychotherapy
practice in Washington, D.C. and suburban Maryland.

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