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The "Family-Friendly" Workplace Is Inadequate

The Complete Lawyer
Volume 4, Number 2
March 2008

Ultimately, deep change, whether at the personal or the organizational level, is a spiritual process. Loss of alignment occurs when, for whatever reason, we begin to pursue the wrong end. This process begins innocently enough. In pursuing some justifiable end, we make a trade-off of some kind. We know it is wrong, but we rationalize our choice. We use the end to justify the means. As time passes, something inside us starts to wither. We are forced to live at the cognitive level, the rational, goal-seeking level. We lose our vitality and begin to work from sheer discipline. Our energy is not naturally replenished, and we experience no joy in what we do. We are experiencing slow death.1

I define a team as an enthusiastic set of competent people who have clearly defined roles, associated in a common activity, working cohesively in trusting relationships, and exercising personal discipline and making individual sacrifice for the good of the team.2
          -- Robert E. Quinn

In spite of having been a staunch supporter of “family-friendly” workplace policies throughout my career, I have modified my position.

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Do You Act Like A "Jerk" Without Knowing It?

The Complete Lawyer
Volume 4, Number 1
January 2008

I first met Lola at a women lawyers' leadership event. An African American Ivy League graduate, she had recently been recruited from the federal government to a large firm and accepted the offer in order to hone her expertise in international corporate transactions. As a newcomer to the firm, she arranged to meet with every partner in her area in order to learn about their practices and seek out good work assignments. Each time she asked a partner for work, however, she was referred back to the assigning partner, from whom she received assignments that primarily involved document management and administrative tasks. To several partners she explained that, as a senior associate, she needed more substantive projects in order to further develop her skills and advance in the firm. But each time she was told that the assignment system had been developed in order to ensure equitable work distribution and that she needed to work within that system.

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Aging Attorneys - Whose Problem Is It Really?

The Complete Lawyer
Volume 3, Number 4
April 2007

When I first began doing presentations for Bar groups and law firms about 9 years ago, I encountered something unexpected. I was typically asked to address issues related to work-life conflict for women whose career-building years coincided with biological clock-determined times for child-bearing and rearing. As the demand for billable hours increased, so did the need for alternative work schedules as a means for firms to retain talent and women to progress in their legal careers while also managing the bulk of family responsibility. Each time I spoke I emphasized the need for flexible schedules to be offered as genuine alternatives, not stigmatized “mommy-tracks.”

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Lemming Law

The Complete Lawyer
Volume 3, Number 2
February 2007

We need to acknowledge the diversity that already exists in many law firms, and support its expression in order to create a new, more humane approach to our profession.

One of the great ironies of law firm life is that, despite the well-known difficulty of “herding cats,” and the fierce insistence on individuality, the culture places enormous emphasis on conformity.  Over the past decade during which I’ve been working with attorneys and their firms, I’ve witnessed increasing pressure on lawyers to fit a specific mold.  Gone are the days of “minders,” “finders” and “grinders.”  In fact, many of the equity partners who seek coaching do so because, after years of relatively comfortable careers as “service partners,” their job security suddenly vanished under escalating demands to bring in new business.

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Are Your Own Gender Biases Holding You Back?

The Complete Lawyer
Volume 3, Number 1
January 2007

Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt.
      --William Shakespeare, Measure For Measure

At least once every year I offer a coaching group for women lawyers on rainmaking.  During the first call, each participant explains what she hopes to accomplish through the group and describes the obstacles currently impeding her marketing success.

The “universal” and primary obstacle is invariably some variation on this theme:  marketing requires exaggeration of one’s skills, shameless self-promotion and aggressiveness.  Because of this, it is something that comes easily to men but is offensive to women.

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